Stressed and Anxious? Breathe Your Way to Calm

Unlock Your Body’s Natural Stress Relief System

Are you constantly feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or just plain "off"? You're not alone. Millions of people struggle with stress, anxiety, and poor sleep. But what if the solution is simpler than you think?

The Hidden Cause of Your Stress

The root of your stress and anxiety might lie in your breathing. Modern life has led us to adopt shallow, chest-breathing patterns that keep our nervous system stuck in fight or flight mode.

This can lead to:

  • Chronic stress and anxiety
  • Poor sleep quality
  • Brain fog and difficulty concentrating
  • Digestive issues and physical pain

Your Breath, Your Power

But there’s good news. By mastering diaphragmatic breathing, you can reclaim your body’s natural ability to relax and rejuvenate. Breathe 4 Empowerment is a transformative 8-week program designed to help you:

Recognize Your Breathing Patterns

Understand your current habits and identify areas for improvement.

Relearn the Art of Diaphragmatic Breathing

Master the natural and efficient way to breathe, calming your nervous system.

Establish a Daily Breathing Routine

Solidify new habits with a consistent practice that takes just minutes a day.

Integrate Breathing into Your Life

Apply these techniques to manage stress, improve sleep, and enhance overall well-being.

Unlock the 3 Secrets of Breath

Your Breath Has a Hidden Lever for Stress and Anxiety

Breathing patterns directly influence your brainwaves, affecting your mood, focus, and sleep. Diaphragmatic breathing activates your parasympathetic nervous system, calming your mind and body instantly.
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Secret #1

Studies Show 80% of Adults Breathe Incorrectly

Shallow, chest-based breathing limits oxygen intake and contributes to stress, anxiety, and even physical pain.
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Secret #2

Your Diaphragm is Your Secret Weapon

Activating your diaphragm through proper breathing unlocks a cascade of benefits, including reduced anxiety, improved digestion, and increased energy.
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Imagine a Life Where You

  • Effortlessly calm your mind and body anytime, anywhere
  • Sleep soundly and wake up refreshed
  • Experience laser-sharp focus and mental clarity
  • Feel empowered and in control of your emotions

Breathe 4 Empowerment provides the tools and guidance to make this a reality.

Here’s what you’ll receive:

  • Personalized coaching: 6 one-on-one sessions with a certified breathing coach.
  • Proven techniques: Master 5 powerful diaphragmatic breathing exercises.
  • Comprehensive support: Benefit from video tutorials, audio tracks, a workbook, and email support throughout the program.
  • Lasting results: Develop a sustainable breathing practice for lifelong well- being.

Plus, these valuable bonuses:

  • 30-Day Breathing Challenge: Kickstart your journey with a structured challenge.
  • Breathing Routine Planner: Create a personalized plan to make diaphragmatic breathing a daily habit.
Elevate your game with diaphragmatic breathing techniques. Improve focus, reduce stress, and enhance athletic performance & recovery.

See What Others Are Saying

“Since working with Stephanie, my breathing has become more efficient, and my sleep and mood have significantly improved! I feel more centered and calm. I highly recommend this program!” – Michelle L., Mother/OT

“As a busy mom, I rarely had time for myself, and my stress levels were through the roof. Breathe 4 Empowerment gave me simple, practical tools that I can use anytime, anywhere to find moments of calm amidst the chaos. I’m so grateful for this program!” – Maria L., Stay-at-Home Mom

This program is perfect for you if:

  • You’re seeking a natural way to manage stress and anxiety.
  • You struggle with sleep apnea or other breathing difficulties.
  • You want to improve your energy levels and overall well-being.
  • You’re committed to creating a healthier, happier life.

Invest in yourself and experience the transformative power of diaphragmatic breathing.

Enroll in Breathe 4 Empowerment Today! – Limited Spots Available

Meet your coach

Meet Stephanie, Your Breathing Coach

Stephanie, MAEd, is a certified breathing coach, founder of Balancing Elephants and creator of the BE Buddy® multisensory breathing tool for kids. She’s passionate
about helping adults and children reclaim their natural breathing to unlock greater calm, focus, and well-being.

As a trauma-informed educator and certified yoga instructor, Stephanie understands the profound impact of breath on the nervous system. Through Breathe 4 Empowerment, she guides you to:

  • Master diaphragmatic breathing
  • Reduce stress and anxiety
  • Improve sleep, focus, and energy

Stephanie’s science-backed approach empowers you to become the master of your own nervous system.

Ready to experience the transformative power of breath?

Frequently Asked Questions

100% Satisfaction Guarantee: If you’re not completely thrilled with the program, we
offer a full refund. You have nothing to lose and a lifetime of better breathing to gain!

What is breathwork?

We breathe automatically without thinking about it, but breathing is the only vital life function we can voluntarily control. This is breathwork.

I define breathwork as Breathing on Purpose or “BOP,” which is breathing with awarenessintention, and attention to improve physical, mental, and emotional health. 

Breathing exercises intentionally improve breathing efficiency, lung health, and athletic performance and reduce stress and anxiety.   

Why learn to breathe well?

We breathe over 20,000 times a day, but most of us breathe inefficiently and in a way that increases stress.  

Here are a few more reasons why breathing is the lowest-hanging fruit of physical, mental, and emotional health.

  • The link between the mind and body can be the catalyst for your emotional state
  • Poor breathing habits magnify over a lifetime, affecting health and happiness. Many people are unaware that they are stuck in stressed breathing habits for weeks, months, or even years
  • Anyone can learn it
  • It is accessible
  • It is free
  • It is accessible anytime and anywhere
  • It strengthens the immune system
  • It stimulates movement & circulation

Benefits of breathing well?

  • Improves the digestive system
  • Enhances lung function (better gas exchange)
  • Increases muscle performance
  • Reduces neck and shoulder pain
  • Improves heart health
  • Lower stress levels
  • Decreases blood pressure
  • Regulates the nervous system
What is "vertical breathing"?

Vertical breathing (aka chest or apical breathing) is when you use the backup breathing muscles high in your chest, often leading to overuse of the neck and shoulder muscles. 

Our bodies are only meant to breathe this way for short bursts, but many of us get stuck in habitual vertical breathing for too long, causing:

⬆️ cortisol (stress hormone), neck and shoulder pain, increased blood pressure, increased heart rate, digestive problems 

⬇️ immunity

What is diaphragmatic breathing (aka "belly breathing")?

“Belly” breathing (otherwise known as abdominal breathing or diaphragmatic breathing) allows us to use the primary breathing muscle, the diaphragm. This is how the body is designed to breathe and (according to Dr. Belisa Vranich) is anatomically congruous and biomechanically sound. In other words, our body wants to breathe this way. 

By breathing using our primary breathing muscles, we capture the highest amount of oxygen into the densest, the most oxygen-rich portion of our lungs (the lower part of the lungs). This relieves strain on our shoulders and backs by giving our auxiliary breathing muscles a break. 

Belly breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which is calming and restorative. 

How can breathing better help my child or me?

Diaphragmatic “belly” breathing will help:

  • regulate the nervous system: breathe low and slow to calm our thoughts and body
  • unexplained breathlessness and breathing discomfort
  • asthma and chronic lung complaints
  • digestive issues
  • snoring and sleep apnea
  • poor breathing patterns and habits
  • anxiety disorders
  • over breathing
  • sports performance
Don't we breathe automatically? Why do I need to be taught how to breathe?

Breathing is both voluntary and involuntary. This means that our habits play a role in how we breathe; without awareness of these habits, our breathing can become inefficient and dysfunctional.

If breathing becomes dysfunctional, your health suffers. We are all born with a healthy breathing style, but many of us lose this style and adopt unhealthy and inefficient breathing habits. The goal of The Breathing Class™ is to re-learn how to breathe optimally. 

Who should take a breathing class?

The Breathing Class™ is  for anyone who experiences any of the following:

  • neck/shoulder pain
  • low stamina/endurance
  • brain fog
  • chronic stress /anxiety
  • back pain
  • low energy
  • high blood pressure
  • acid reflux
  • digestive issues
  • sleep troubles
  • exercises-induced asthma

Breathing may not be the solution in itself but is an excellent place to start! 

How can I help my child build healthy breathing habits?

The first step is to educate yourself to build awareness of your breathing habits. Children often model after their parents or caregivers, so working to improve breathing habits together is your best chance of success. The goal is to build this simple practice into the daily routine (i.e., bedtime).

In other words, parents, teachers, and caregivers must “put their oxygen mask on first” before teaching it to children. 

What happens in a breathing class?

Here is an outline of a typical coaching session

  • Introduction/overview
  • Review concerns and health goals 
  • Assess your unique breathing style and what it means
  • Learn breathing basics and the science of breathing
  • Customized breathing exercises to strengthen lungs, improve focus and reduce stress
  • Review your daily breathwork practice and homework

My approach to breathwork is: science-basedsimplesafe and accessible

We will discuss your breathing style and develop a customized plan to improve your breathing habits. You will learn how to do your measurements so that you can track your progress. 

How can better breathing help with stress and anxiety?

When you breathe high initiating the breath with your neck and shoulder muscles (vertically), your body feels under attack (fight or flight), and the sympathetic nervous system takes over. If this is your breathing pattern while at rest, you will get stuck in an alert state all day long without enough time to rest and recover.  When you breathe vertically, you have less control over your stress response. 

Alternatively, when we breathe low and slow expanding the belly, sides and back (horizontally) , the vagus nerve immediately signals the parasympathetic system to rest and digest. This gives you more control over your reactions and calms the mind and body.  You can use low and slow belly breathing throughout the day to interrupt the stress cycle. 

When does our breathing change?

First of all, we are all born with an anatomically perfect breath. We use our diaphragm without bracing or feeling self-conscious for several years before bad habits set-in.  Watch your dog or a child under 5-years old, and you will see a healthy breathing pattern. 

Dr. Belisa Vranich completed a study of 158 children (ages 2-11) and found that by age 5 ½, dysfunctional breathing patterns begin to emerge. Teaching kids at a young age will give them the tools to self-regulate and breathe with understanding and awareness to prevent those bad habits from setting in.

Why does our breathing style change as we get older?

Some of the reasons this happens are:

  • Starting school
  • Sitting longer
  • Stop rolling on the floor
  • Wearing backpacks
  • Their social life increases (or not)
  • Homework/testing (stress)
  • Comparisons (self-conscious)
  • They mimic parents
  • Stethoscope at the doctor’s office
  • Tight clothes

Can you remember or relate to any of these habits or myths from when you were young?

Is breathwork right for me?

Breathwork is a safe and effective practice, but if you have specific questions or concerns, I invite you to sign up for a FREE 15-minute Discovery Session. Upon booking, you will have the choice to meet over Zoom or via phone. This will be a time dedicated to your questions and personal goals. 

How can breathing affect my mood?

There is a psychological element of breathing that directly affects your emotions. Breathing is a bridge linking body and mind and is the connection that can be activating, calming, or cathartic.  

So this means that how we breathe can affect the way we feel. 

Where does the session take place?

All breathing classes are held online via Zoom unless you are in the Twins Cities area.  If you would like to inquire about an in-person session or workshop, I invite you to sign up for a FREE discovery call to discuss your inquiries and goals. 

What qualifications do you have?

My combined passion for teaching and breathwork will give you the best experience and expertise to get your body to breathe well again. As a mother, I see the need for new tools to manage stress and pass these essential skills down to our children. I invite you to join me on a transformative experience that is practical, fun, and effective!

My Certifications/Credentials:

How do I prepare for an online breathing session?

How to prepare for a breathing session:

  • Computer, tablet, or iPhone for Zoom session
  • A quiet & uninterrupted space 
  • Yoga mat or towel
  • Comfortable clothing
  • Empty stomach
  • Water bottle
  • Tape measure (like this one)

*optional, but highly recommended-Dr. Belisa’s BREATHE™ Book

Can breathwork training help my athletic performance?

Yes!  As an athlete, fatigue is your worst enemy.  The Breathing Class will help you breathe efficiently followed by strengthening the breathing muscles to help you breathe easier and perform longer and harder with less effort.  

Your breathing muscles fatigue just like any other muscles in your body.  

We will train them separately to:

  • gain maximum efficiency with minimal effort
  • optimize oxygen saturation when the system is anatomically congruous
  • decrease recovery times due to higher efficiency
  • increase ribcage mobility and flexibility 
  • relieve excess tension
How do I register for a BREATHE™ session?

Go to the services page on this website and register for your session with me. Or you are always welcome to reach out with questions or concerns anytime at stephanie@balancingelephants.com

Invest in Your Well-being Today

Empower yourself with the knowledge and skills to breathe your way to a better life.