Our bodies are well equipped to handle acute doses of stress, but it results in various stress effects on the body when it becomes chronic or long-lasting. Learn some of the common ways stress creeps into the body and what you can do to help your child build their stress-busting toolbox.
What causes stress on the body
Stress is anything a person perceives to be a threat. It is an external threat, such as a big test or speech coming up. Once the danger goes away, so does the stress.
Stress can be useful, but too much of it can lead to anxiety and feel uncomfortable in your body (increased heart-rate, tight or tense muscles, a nervous tummy, or you might even get sweaty, hot, or shaky).
Examples of what causes stress in kids:
lots of activities (overscheduled)
too much homework
striving for good grades
siblings
tests/school projects
arguing with friends
too much work
parent’s stress
afterschool sports/activities
pleasing everyone
not enough downtime
Besides these common triggers, kids and families struggle to cope with the many disruptions and fears the pandemic has caused.
According to the American Psychological Association, Americans have been profoundly affected by the COVID-19 pandemic. “Americans are struggling to cope with the disruptions it has caused. Nearly 8 in 10 adults (78%) say the coronavirus pandemic is a significant source of stress in their life.”
These compounding stressors have real consequences on our physical and emotional wellbeing.
Although this list is not exhaustive, here are some of the more common ways stress manifests in the body.
5 Physical Stress Effects on the Body
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Do any of these resonate with you or your child?
Muscle Tension or Pain (jaw clenching or grinding)
Low Energy/Fatigue
Stomach or digestive issues
Sleep problems
Frequent colds or infections
There are many more signs and symptoms of stress on the body, so it helps to become aware of how your body holds stress so that you can develop the tools to manage it safely and effectively.
Keep things into perspective and focus on the good things (“3 Good Things”)
Build a coping toolbox to help kids manage stress and anxiety
Stress will invariably follow us through life, so the sooner we give kids the tools to handle it, the better. As adults, we’re all well-aware of stress’s effects on the body. Let’s give our kids the tools they need to skip this step of adulthood by helping them manage and even prevent stress.
How to prevent stress:
good nutrition
learn positive problem solving and coping skills
foster close, supportive relationships
establish routines and boundaries
permission to make mistakes
consistent, positive discipline
ability to identify, label and express feelings appropriately
feeling physically and emotionally safe
time to have fun and enjoy life
Discover Additional Stress-Relief Resources
If you are looking for more resources to help identify and reduce the physical effects of stress on the body, you can check out my resources page here.
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